I've had manual, I've had auto, Yes, manuals are more fun.

Also take into consideration is it going to be:
daily driver in alot of stop & go traffic
date car/fun car only
Is the wife going to want to drive the car too? & does she perfer auto to manual?
Being the saying
"If MOMMA ain't happy, NO body's happy"Do what you think is best for you regarding manual vs auto
As for 2008 vs 2009
2008 has 1 passenger side cupholder & 2 cupholder in waterfall (3 cup holders)
2008 has the GM GXP GMPP upgrade tune (& maintains GM warrenty, if that's an issue)
2008 does not have bluetooth capability
2009 has on 1 passenger side cupholder ONLY ( 1 cup holder ONLY)
2009 GM GXP GMPP upgrade tune is not yet available
2009 has bluetooth capabilities
2009 has different wheels from 07 & 08
At this time that these are the only major differences I can recall between 08 & 09
This does not include the color choices
Hope this helps and wish you the best

Oh yes, WELCOME to the forum

Here's a thought.......
BUY her, her own solstice w/ an auto (we ladies love our cars too)

& you get your's w/ a manual