Ok... so basic things to know that hurt a diff ring gear. Wheel hop and slamming the gears.
Lots of ways to avoid wheel hop. Softer sidewall tires, Solid/stiffer mounts bracing the diff, stronger axles, etc.
All of which are useless if you don't have a good pre-load on the gear and slowly slide the clutch when leaving. How do I know?
This is a ring gear in my diff.

Strange spool differential, 10.5 slick tires, upgraded axles, solid billet aluminum cover, solid rear mounts, 1 pieces drive shaft, and billet aluminum couplers.

If you drop the clutch too quickly on any diff, no matter what the upgrades, you will hurt an oem gear. This is why I'm (hopefully)going to a softer "Pro" gear that should take more shock and abuse than a normal oem gear set.
So no matter what upgrades you do, the driver is the most important feature in the launch of a manual trans car.